Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Akanksha students feedback :) (session date : 09 Dec 2012)

i had the good fortune of interacting with students of akanksha foundation on  09 December 2012. The topic  of discussion was  child sexual abuse and sexuality.  I know this may seem narcissistic that I share this here. But i want you to know what emotions emerge as an aftereffect of a simple  heart-to-heart talk. 





I have heard you even before but it was a long time ago. So I don’t remember it and, true be true, I wasn't so focused last time. I really like the session and I had many things to ask, say and confirm after the session but at the end I was totally silent and I really want to salute you for your courage.
I am totally speechless about your courage, to openly share something so painful about your life.


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While the session was going, I almost was nearly to cry, but later on the emotion changed and felt like doing something for any of my friend who is going through something like this and help even if he is not my friend.
You are truly an inspiration. I am not able to write everything I want because I am speechless but will definitely add next time. I am lucky I had a session with you. Proudly salute you man. 

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मुझे आपसे मिलके अच्छा लगा और आप जिस तरह से अपने बारे में सब कुछ हमें बताया वोह भी बिना शर्म के . कुछ लोग अपने बारे में खुद के साथ क्या होता है वोह कुछ बताते नहीं हैं। लेकिन आपने जो बताया वोह अच्छा लगा और आपके वजह से किसी और गे को चिड़ाते है वोह भी बंद हो जाएगा। ऐसा मुझे लगा। मुझे दूसरो का पता नहीं, लेकिन आपने job ही बताया वोह सुनकर मुझे अच्छा लगा।sorry भैया मैंने आपको ऊपर GAY ऐसा लिखा है। 


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Dear Bhaiya,
I really liked the session. One thing that I like about you is you are so friendly and open gay I have seen in my life.

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मुझे आज का session  बहुत अचा लगा, क्यूंकि मुझे सेक्स  के बारे में ज्यादा information मिली। और थोडा emotional भी हो गयी। पर आज  आप आये इस लिए मुझे बहुत अचा लगा। और आप आये तोह बात करके बहुत अचा और FREE  लगा। मैं चाहती हु के आप फिर से आये। 

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मुझे ये session सुनकर बहुत अच्छा लगा। कुछ नयी story सुनने को मिली। story  के बीच में इतना दुःख हुआ की मैं सोची की  बैठ के बहुत रोऊ । लेकिन एक हिम्मत भी आ गयी की इसी समय रोना नहीं चाहिए। दुसरो की बाते सुनानी चाहिए ताकि उसकी हिम्मत बढे। अगर मेरी ज़िन्दगी में ऐसा कुछ होता है, मेरे गर में या मेरे फ्रेंड के साथ तोह मैं भी उसकी मद्दद करू। 

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Dear Harish bhaiya,
After listening all about you, I feel very bad and very sad for you. Whenever you say that I am gay, I was feeling that why were you saying that you are gay. Actually you should not say because I thought whenever you said it hurt me. I was not getting attracted on you (initially) but more attracted to you feeling how you had expressed yourself to us.
Bhaiya, you know that I always like to tease the gay person because I think they only like boys and they like to be with them but after doing session with you I got to know that it’s all about likes. If I like girl I am ok and if I like boy still I am ok because it’s my right.

Liked to hear your story and feelings with (your) sweet voice.
Your fan

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I liked this session a lot because I had very different thinking about gays and I thought that gays are gays because of their hormones and because they wanted to become a gay. And I also thought they don’t talk to girls and they behave in the manner that if they see any male they just go and stick to them. But I am very grateful to bhaiya that he came and told us the truth of his life. I also know the cases like this in my community. I would like to share it to you. I have a cousin brother and he always try to misbehave with my own brother when my dad was in hospital, no one was there at my home so my brother used to be at my cousin’s house. And he used to say do it with me and I will give you money or I will hit you, so in fear he used to go in bathroom and my brother was abused. It happened many times and once I got to know about this. So I asked my brother about this and he was so scared that he was not saying anything. But however he said when I started telling him tell otherwise mom will beat you. Then he told me. And now it has stopped happening.

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Today’s session with Harish is very nice. I learnt too much from this session. I feel first time that what the other person think when we tease them. I think the session was very nice. And I really appreciate Harish bhaiya’s courage that he fought with this huge problem.

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The session was very good, interesting and useful. And it was also informative. And this was the first time when I came across such a speaker who gave us a lot of information about how the world looks at such things which they think that it’s different from their society. And I realized that if somebody is teasing someone as gay, it can affect the victim a lot and this can lead for them to commit suicide.

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I like this session very well. When Harish bhaiya came I never thought that bhaiya was a gay. He look like a dude as well. He told us about what happen in his past. He said truly about his past.


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The session was very interesting and created awareness. I got to know and learn about gays and transgenders.
This session has taught me how to behave with others and after listening to their problems how to come to the conclusion and solve problems.
I enjoyed the session very much.

Thank you.

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To हरीश भैय्या 
आज का class मुझे अच्छा लगा क्यूंकि मुझे वोह सब के बारे में जानना अच्छा लगता है। मुझे आपके बारे में पत्ता था, पर मुझे देखना था  की वह इंसान कौन है। आज आपको देख भी लिया तोह मुझे बहुत अचा लगा।  आपने जब आपकी  story बतायी तोह थोडा रोना भी आया।
Thank you bhaiya.


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Dear Harish bhaiya,

मुझे आजका  class  बहुत पसंद आया। अब मज्जा भी आया हरीश भैय्या के आने से पहले मुझे  gay लोगो से बहुत दर लगता था। लेकिन आज के क्लास के बाद मुझे उनसे कभी दर नहीं लगेगा। बल्कि मैं उनकी इज्ज़त करूंगी। 
Harish  भैय्या के कारण मुझे ये सीख मिली की कितनी बड़ी ही क्यु ना  problem  हो उसके सामने हमें डटें रहना चाहिए। 
Thank you भैय्या .

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I liked the way when Harish bhaiya was sharing his stories with us. 
जब वोह बोल रहे थे मेरी आँखों में सच्ची का आसू आ रहे थे। जिस अन्दास से वोह बोल रहे थे मैं उनके दर्द को सचमुच feel  कर पा रही थी। पहले जब उन्होंने अपने को gay  बोलकर introduce  किया तब में 10 मिनट तक डरी हुयी थी। 
पर जब उनकी बाते सुनने लगी तोह वोह डर भी चला गया। 
उनकी हिम्मत तोह काबिल-इ-तारीफ़ है। 
मानना पड़ेगा उनकी हिम्मत को। 

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 बहुत अचा लगा आपके experience  सुन्नके। 
एक और learning मिली। . I am very happy after hearing your story. Whatever you did, it was a great inspiration for me. I got inspired from you.
Thank you very much for being with us and sharing your real life experience with us.

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I like this session very much because I learn much more about child sex abuse. I like many things in this session and one of them is that Harish bhaiya told us that if any child tells you that he/she is suffering from child sex abuse, we should hold his/her hand and listen him/her.
So, thank you Harish bhaiya for coming here and next time please come with Juhi chawla J

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I had come when the session was getting over but I got the last part of the session and I was very surprised that you were so courageous to share your story with us. But I still don’t know your story which I will ask my friends. But I feel that you are doing a good job by sharing with us your experiences. Thank you…..
Also by coming late I could quickly understand what were you talking about so your presentation skills are very nice.

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मुझे येह बातें सुनकर बहुत अच्छा लगा।  
 gay के बारे में, lesbian के बारे में,  –  की कैसे होते हैं, जब मैं सोचती हु इनके बारे में तब मुझे बूरा कगता है। हरीश भैय्या आप बहुत अछे हो की आपने लेस्बियन और गे के बारे में बताया।  
आपकी कहानी बतायी। आपने ये सोचा भी नहीं के आपको कोई चिदायेगा। बिना डरे अपने बारे में बट्टा दिया। 
Thank  you  भैय्या। 
हमें बहुत अचा लगा और हमें इस बारे में बहुत सीख मिली। 

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After this session my thinking towards homosexuals has really changed and my respect towards them has grown more.
Thank you Harish bhaiya




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